Aaron’s mother, Patricia, is sixty-two and has always had a complicated relationship with attention. She doesn’t just like it. She needs it. When the spotlight shifts away from her, she grows sharp, restless, and quietly cruel. I had noticed it before the wedding, though I didn’t fully understand it.
At our engagement party, she wore an ivory dress that photographed suspiciously close to white. At the rehearsal dinner, she interrupted my toast three times to tell stories about Aaron as a child, each one longer and louder than the last. Aaron would squeeze my hand and whisper, “That’s just how she is,” as if it were a harmless personality quirk instead of a warning sign.
On the morning of the wedding, I felt it immediately. Something was off.
While my bridesmaids helped me into my gown, carefully fastening each small button, Patricia walked into the room without knocking. She looked me up and down, then glanced at the group around me.
“Must be nice,” she said lightly, examining her nails, “to have everyone fuss over you like this. I did my own makeup on my wedding day. I didn’t need all the extra attention.”
My maid of honor shot me a warning look, and I chose to ignore the comment. I refused to let negativity touch that moment.
Later, Patricia saw my mother’s dress. It was a soft blue chiffon gown we had chosen together at a small boutique. It was elegant, understated, and perfect for her. Patricia leaned toward one of Aaron’s cousins and whispered loudly enough for several people to hear, “Interesting choice. Looks like someone’s trying to compete with the bride.”
A few awkward laughs followed. My stomach tightened, but I took a breath and let it go. I told myself it didn’t matter.
It mattered more than I knew.
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